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May and June have been rough


I had uninvited out of town relatives – AGAIN. They stayed two weeks. As for calling them relatives, I’m almost sure there’s only one drop of blood, if any, that makes us kin. I’ll never understand why my house is always the chosen one, since I’ve never in my life visited them.

Someone graduated from high school, and they all – 19 of them - came for his ceremony, and to celebrate. I did not go. Seven of them took it upon themselves to stay at my house, and without notice, decided to celebrate right after the ceremony at my house. It amazes me how they expect for me to not only give them all of their daily necessities, but to also foot the bill for their celebration. I went to Sam’s and bought lots of cokes, beer and chips, and nothing else! I never permit anyone to take advantage of me, but when it comes to relatives, I’m unable to say no.

I always keep my gate locked, but since I had so many vacationers, it was impossible for me to keep my gate lock. This is why another (I honestly believe there is zero kin blood between us) relative from this city dropped by with her son to give me a graduation invitation, which was to be on the same day. I didn’t even know the guy, since this woman has something like 8 kids and no husband[s] or job. I realized it wasn’t the boy’s fault, so I gave him a big hug and $10.00 as a graduation gift. This same woman lost a son due to drug overdose, which broke my heart, but I found myself among the selected few to pitch in for the funeral.

May was a living nightmare.

My vet finally had to euthanize one of my outdoor dogs. He went peacefully and with out pain yet.

I had to hire my attorney again about my irrigation rights, and again, the end results were very satisfactory.

My Dad has been sick for over a week. I’ve been staying at his house to care for him, and for my own peace of mind. His appointment is July 1. I’m scared to death, and praying his cancer isn’t back again.

June has been a nightmare, too.

Next posts will be about what’s going on in our world, or my 4-legged babies, or anything that will take my mind off my woes.


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nawlins_penguin
Jun. 28th, 2010 08:32 pm (UTC)
I wondered about your seeming silence. July 1 is a brand new month, so wash May/June from your hands.

I do hope your father gets the best of news. Very sorry to hear about your loss, too. I know how you love the doggies.
xjenavivex
Jun. 28th, 2010 08:50 pm (UTC)
Crap honey. I am so sorry it has been so rough.
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:36 pm (UTC)

I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

Thank you luv!!
tigron_x
Jun. 28th, 2010 08:59 pm (UTC)
All adult relationships are voluntary.
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playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:37 pm (UTC)
I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

In my eyes you are the one who is the strongest woman of all!

fourcorners
Jun. 28th, 2010 09:33 pm (UTC)
I wish the best for your family. I pray for your dad

Hope you post more often, sweetie
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:38 pm (UTC)
You'll be seeing so much of me now, that you just won't know what the hell to do with me!

I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

You're prayers were answered SPECIAL ONE!
p0stmdrnpr1mt1v
Jun. 28th, 2010 09:35 pm (UTC)
I hope your dad will feel better soon and the appointment brings good news.
sorry to hear about the dog :(
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:41 pm (UTC)
I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

Thank you luv!!
ubet_cha
Jun. 29th, 2010 01:22 am (UTC)
Hope your Dad is ok and you get some chill time soon. - P
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:40 pm (UTC)
I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

I'm so chilled that I've got goose bumps of happiness all over my body!

Thank you STP!
sputnik
Jun. 29th, 2010 01:50 am (UTC)
Best wishes for your father. I am so sorry to hear that you've had to put up with all this from relatives. Next time do like Bilbo did.
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 09:00 pm (UTC)
I believe the only solution for me is to sell my house and move where I won't be found, or perhaps develop a back bone someday to just say NO!

I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

Thank you SPECIAL ONE!!
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playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:42 pm (UTC)
I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

Thank you luv!!
nishar
Jun. 29th, 2010 08:26 am (UTC)
I ;ove my family. But if any of them dropped by uninvited, expecting to stay a night, much less two weeks, they would be told where a few cheap motels are. Now way they could stay here.

Uh... you know I am a long lost relative of yours. I am coming to stay with you for the next ten years or so. lol *just kidding*
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:57 pm (UTC)
This happens to me at least once or twice a year; uninvited relatives from one side or another. I seriously hope I can be just as frank as you when it comes to this problem. I wouldn't mind it at all if they'd only did as I do when visiting someone, and that is stay at a hotel and pay for my own meals and what nots!

If you came to visit for 10 years, I'd never let you go! :o)

nishar
Jun. 29th, 2010 08:27 am (UTC)
On to more serious news... I hope your dad will be ok. I will keep him in my prayers love. *hugs*
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:53 pm (UTC)
I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

Thank you luv!!
ayoub
Jun. 29th, 2010 12:21 pm (UTC)
Missed you, gorgeous!
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:43 pm (UTC)
I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

It always makes me happy to be missed by you!
i_love_tazzus
Jun. 29th, 2010 04:35 pm (UTC)
Hope everything's well with you and your dad.
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:43 pm (UTC)
I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

Thank you luv!!
drake57
Jun. 29th, 2010 04:46 pm (UTC)
*HUGS*
Missed you
*Sends you good vibes*
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:51 pm (UTC)
I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

Your good vibes were extremely successful Luv!
paulpomes
Jun. 30th, 2010 06:13 am (UTC)
The opening line to Anna Karenina has always been appropriate to my relatives and many, many others: "Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way."

The key to survival is to do the minimal necessary to satisfy social conventions while avoiding entanglements in staged dramas.
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 09:03 pm (UTC)
I had never read that before, but I'll keep it in mind, and hope I have the guts to follow through!

Thank you!
cris_nicewelts
Jun. 30th, 2010 03:52 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry darling. I know what that is like. Take care.
playgirl
Jul. 2nd, 2010 08:52 pm (UTC)
I've posted an update on Dad's situation, and thank yous with lots of love!

Thank you luv!!
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