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Light on or off sex

Do you prefer the lights on or off
when you're having sex? Why?


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Jul. 30th, 2007 11:44 pm (UTC)
Lights on. I'm a visual kind of guy. Besides, it's harder to read body language and other visual clues in the dark.
Jul. 31st, 2007 04:52 pm (UTC)
Girls love a visual type of guy!
(no subject) - garzan - Jul. 31st, 2007 06:46 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - playgirl - Aug. 1st, 2007 02:07 am (UTC) - Expand
Jul. 30th, 2007 11:45 pm (UTC)
lights on. i love to see their face in sheer ecstasy as i'm fucking their brains out.
Jul. 31st, 2007 04:50 pm (UTC)
Lucky lover! ;o)
Jul. 30th, 2007 11:45 pm (UTC)
Light's on. I love seeing her facial expressions when she's cumming.
Jul. 31st, 2007 03:34 pm (UTC)
Facial expressions are the cherry on the cupcake! :o)
Jul. 30th, 2007 11:47 pm (UTC)
Depends.....I like the lights on so she and I can do different things and different positions....

I like the lights off so we can be totally immersed in our love making...

I guess it depends on whether we are fucking hard or making tender love with each other.
Jul. 31st, 2007 03:39 pm (UTC)
I'm curious :o)
So when do the lights go off? During love making, or during the hard stuff?
Re: I'm curious :o) - a_phoenix - Aug. 1st, 2007 12:17 am (UTC) - Expand
Re: I'm curious :o) - playgirl - Aug. 1st, 2007 02:10 am (UTC) - Expand
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Jul. 31st, 2007 04:47 pm (UTC)
Yes, candle light is perfect.

The human body is beautiful, so why hide it with darkness while in the heat of passion?

Jul. 31st, 2007 01:04 am (UTC)
Kiss me much huh?
Jul. 31st, 2007 01:06 am (UTC)
I perfer the lights on. I like to see what I'm getting into. The truth is as an artist I have always been visual in my approach to things. So naturally when being that close to someone I want to see them.
Sí, bésame mucho, inspectorjury! - playgirl - Jul. 31st, 2007 01:25 am (UTC) - Expand
Re: Sí, bésame mucho, inspectorjury! - inspectorjury - Jul. 31st, 2007 01:31 pm (UTC) - Expand
Jul. 31st, 2007 01:09 am (UTC)
Lights on for sure...I'm a visual guy as well...:)
I once had a g/f who almost always had to have the lights off...sheesh.....oh well...what can you do.
Jul. 31st, 2007 01:48 pm (UTC)
Forgot to log in
I've heard that some people like the lights off, and often wondered why.
Jul. 31st, 2007 01:31 am (UTC)
don't really care, I'm just happy to be there.

Jul. 31st, 2007 04:38 am (UTC)
I'm sure you are! ;o)
Jul. 31st, 2007 01:33 am (UTC)
Lights on definitely. In the dark you can not see the visual signs from your partner about their state of arousal and enjoyment. Besides I love staring into the eyes of my lover.
Jul. 31st, 2007 03:07 am (UTC)
Looking into the eyes of a lover, verbalize all those sensual and loving feelings that can't be expressed with mere words.
Jul. 31st, 2007 02:16 am (UTC)
my method
I assume we're talking about non-relationship sex right? OK, what I do is have my computer iTunes on with a semi-bright screen. That provides the perfect amount of light...then after 15 minutes it dims because of the screensaver, then after another 10 or so the screen shuts off with iTunes still going...songs also help a guy measure how long he's lasting...okay maybe that's just me.
Jul. 31st, 2007 02:58 am (UTC)
Re: my method
I think you've discovered the perfect technique! I must pass it around! :o)
Jul. 31st, 2007 02:51 am (UTC)
Gotta have the lights on. The visual is the biggest part of it for me. Just like watching a dirty movie.
Aug. 1st, 2007 02:12 am (UTC)
I love watching dirty movies. You learn so much from them! ;o)
(no subject) - asifallforever - Aug. 1st, 2007 02:14 am (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - playgirl - Aug. 1st, 2007 02:31 am (UTC) - Expand
Jul. 31st, 2007 03:05 am (UTC)
On-ish. As in candles and perhaps slightly dimmed bedside {or dining room table} lights.

I like to watch what's going on.

Then again, behind the lighthouse at Nobby's point is not so bad either.

Jul. 31st, 2007 04:53 am (UTC)
butterflies in the pit of my stomach!
And to sing this song to a lover, while under the light of the moon! OMG! I can already start to feel little butterflies in the pit of my stomach! ;o)

The look of love is in your eyes
A look your smile can´t disguise
The look of love is saying so much more than just words could ever say
And what my heart has heard, well it takes my breath away

I can hardly wait to hold you, feel my arms around you
How long I have waited
Waited just to love you, now that I have found you

You´ve got the
Look of love, it´s on your face
A look that time can´t erase
Be mine tonight, let this be just the start of so many nights like this
Let´s take a lover´s vow and then seal it with a kiss

I can hardly wait to hold you, feel my arms around you
How long I have waited
Waited just to love you, now that I have found you
Don´t ever go
Don´t ever go
Re: butterflies in the pit of my stomach! - moon_shine - Jul. 31st, 2007 07:13 am (UTC) - Expand
Re: butterflies in the pit of my stomach! - playgirl - Aug. 1st, 2007 02:15 am (UTC) - Expand
Re: butterflies in the pit of my stomach! - moon_shine3 - Jul. 31st, 2007 08:12 am (UTC) - Expand
Jul. 31st, 2007 03:07 am (UTC)
well if its some average lookin chick Im bangin to end a slump, lights off.

Its my actual partner Im in a romantic relationship with... lights on.
Jul. 31st, 2007 05:33 am (UTC)
Give me light
Nothing beats light, to check out the territory! ;o)
Jul. 31st, 2007 03:16 am (UTC)
You sunshine any way I can get it lights on or off=o) LOL
Jul. 31st, 2007 04:05 am (UTC)
Aye Sweety Pie! That was so funny!
(no subject) - moon_shine - Jul. 31st, 2007 04:15 am (UTC) - Expand
Jul. 31st, 2007 03:22 am (UTC)
on, if it's sex or fucking. candles if it's a more romantic night.
Jul. 31st, 2007 05:07 pm (UTC)
Candle light makes it so much more special and rewarding! :o)
(no subject) - warpedpuppy - Jul. 31st, 2007 05:13 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - warpedpuppy - Jul. 31st, 2007 05:47 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - playgirl - Aug. 1st, 2007 02:17 am (UTC) - Expand
actually...nvm - warpedpuppy - Aug. 1st, 2007 07:08 am (UTC) - Expand
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