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LJ Friend Deleted Me - DOUCHE BAG

One of my newer LJ friends dropped me from his FList, because he felt I was trying to get attention by my last post, and found it too sexual, a little nauseous, and even mentioned the word Porn.

Let me set the record straight.

Although, I sometimes behave in a naughty manner here in my LJ, I have never posted any thing even remotely connected to Porn. I have NEVER used foul language, unless you find the word ASSHOLE or DOUCHE BAG as foul language.

I consist of a potpourri of personalities, and honest to God, I never know which personality will emerge from day to day. Sometimes I feel like a nut, sometimes I feel like a clown, sometimes I feel like the savior of the world, sometimes I feel like a nun, and sometimes I feel like a SLUT.

There are times where I’ll make posts that are most controversial, which gets many of my LJ friend’s adrenaline going, while at other times I’ll post obnoxiously silly, or sensual posts.

As for trying to get attention, I believe this is true, both in my LJ, and my REAL life, and believe me, I’m most successful at doing so. And besides, I’m single, I’m young, I’m kind of cute, and I could give a horse buck teeth what people think of me!

I’m sorry this person ASSUMED so much about me, without ever giving it time to find out what I’m all about, because I really liked and respected this person, and enjoyed reading his LJ on a daily basis, just as I do with all my LJ friends.

Over half of the 500 and some LJ friends that I have now, are NEW. I will take this opportunity to stress this fact to ALL my other LJ friends:

It’s been a very long time since my obnoxious and many times naughty personality has been dormant, but it’s slowly coming back to life, and I’ll be making some incredibly provocative posts in the near future. If you can’t handle this, please delete me from your FList. I would very much appreciate you letting me know, so I can delete you, too.

If the person, who deleted me because he found my last post to be PORN, wishes to state a comment about this, he is most welcomed, because this LJ is open to everyone, and is 100% FREEDOM OF SPEECH and EXPRESSION.

The world is a MESS, and we sometimes need to forget this FACT. We sometimes have to have some funnies and naughtiness to make us forget, at least for a little while.

And remember, you and I will never meet in person, only spiritually in this journal, so in seeking your attention, as this person accused me of, is fine and dandy, since I ask NOTHING of you, only your friendship!!

By and by, I will NEVER change who I am for NOBODY!!

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kdawg
Mar. 31st, 2007 03:53 pm (UTC)
Yay! Kudos for you!

There is no way I'm deleting you from my list dear! :)

Face it, you are stuck with me.
playgirl
Mar. 31st, 2007 04:45 pm (UTC)
stuck
As you are stuck with me, dear one!
Re: stuck - kdawg - Apr. 1st, 2007 12:35 am (UTC) - Expand
ctuck
Mar. 31st, 2007 03:53 pm (UTC)
First, AMEN, do not change, love you the way you are!

Secondly, Another spat over something you've said.... who do these people think they are!? I'm sure they are regular people like you and I and just have different opinions. So why not just share that and be done with it. Of course, the internet, TV, and books are much a like. People see things that bother them and some where they forget that they can turn it off, shut it down, or close it. They can just choose to stop reading, watching, or looking. Yet they don't, and get offended by it. This bothers me.

I guess there is no real solution as people will continue to fear things they do not understand. That sucks that someone dropped you for such poor reasons. I am here for the long run. I think you're a very kind and caring person. I read about you taking care of animals and people and yourself and am just amazed sometimes. Nothing is going to tarnish that. You could do porn, in my opinion, and it would not take away from who you are.

Keep on, keeping on!
playgirl
Mar. 31st, 2007 04:59 pm (UTC)
ONLY permit those ...
It's sad that there are so many people who will ONLY permit those who see and agree with everything they see.

I have LJ friend's who have different interests from my own, but I have found that after reading these people, I've come to learn so many things I never knew before.

I really and truly love that expression you have on your gorgeous face in your icon! :o)
scottj32
Mar. 31st, 2007 04:03 pm (UTC)
"and I could give a horse buck teeth what people think of me!"

Im really not trying to play devils advocate or anything, but that quote could be argued. The perception you give off is that you DO care what people (and by people, I mean us LJ friends) think of you.

How many times have you posted something about being upset or even crying just because an LJ friend was mad at you or something got misinterpreted?

Maybe I'm wrong. And its fine to want your friends to like you... I'm like that. But when you say you don't care what people think, it kind of counters itself given your previous posts (and replies in my own LJ) that you've made.

Oh and I still love you. My sexy girl. Come to SA Town.
playgirl
Mar. 31st, 2007 04:43 pm (UTC)
Yes I care, but
Yes I care, but just for a moment, because I do have feelings, which much to my dismay, cause me to cry at the drop of a hat, especially from those I really cared for, but these feelings will NEVER cause me to change; it's impossible.

Most of us make every effort to have people like us, and it's a good, because in doing so, we do our best to treat others as we wish to be treated ourselves. Of course, it's impossible to be liked by everyone. Look at that most beloved man of all time, Pope John Paul II, and of course I’m not comparing myself with him; I’m just a little bug in comparison to him. Obviously he wasn't like by everyone, because one of them shot him.

Oh, and I'll always love you, too, my devilishly sexy guy! RAWR!
Re: Yes I care, but - wingswithwar - Mar. 31st, 2007 05:49 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: Yes I care, but - uglyface2 - Mar. 31st, 2007 06:25 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: Yes I care, but - wingswithwar - Mar. 31st, 2007 06:30 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: Yes I care, but - uglyface2 - Apr. 1st, 2007 02:18 am (UTC) - Expand
Re: Yes I care, but - wingswithwar - Apr. 1st, 2007 10:02 am (UTC) - Expand
wingswithwar
Mar. 31st, 2007 04:29 pm (UTC)
PERFECT.

:)

I'll be glad when people understand the power of that SCROLL button and begin to use it instead of getting all bent out of shape over something they ALWAYS have a choice in.

Nahhhh. . .it's too easy for them to judge and hang.

poetpaladin
Mar. 31st, 2007 05:06 pm (UTC)
Heh. Mo' LJ Drama. :)
(no subject) - wingswithwar - Mar. 31st, 2007 05:43 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - poetpaladin - Mar. 31st, 2007 05:50 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - wingswithwar - Mar. 31st, 2007 07:20 pm (UTC) - Expand
he honestly believes I’m a SLUT - playgirl - Mar. 31st, 2007 05:09 pm (UTC) - Expand
He’s really a nice guy - nebris - Mar. 31st, 2007 05:22 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: he honestly believes I’m a SLUT - wingswithwar - Mar. 31st, 2007 05:37 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: he honestly believes I’m a SLUT - playgirl - Mar. 31st, 2007 06:19 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: he honestly believes I’m a SLUT - wingswithwar - Mar. 31st, 2007 06:41 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: he honestly believes I’m a SLUT - playgirl - Mar. 31st, 2007 06:51 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: he honestly believes I’m a SLUT - wingswithwar - Mar. 31st, 2007 06:54 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: he honestly believes I’m a SLUT - playgirl - Mar. 31st, 2007 07:01 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: he honestly believes I’m a SLUT - wingswithwar - Mar. 31st, 2007 07:04 pm (UTC) - Expand
poetpaladin
Mar. 31st, 2007 05:06 pm (UTC)
Be who you want to be. Those of us who remain will mean a lot more to you, than if you were who we wanted you to be.
Hmmm...I miss those times when - playgirl - Mar. 31st, 2007 08:10 pm (UTC) - Expand
Re: Hmmm...I miss those times when - poetpaladin - Apr. 1st, 2007 01:19 am (UTC) - Expand
nebris
Mar. 31st, 2007 05:22 pm (UTC)
*licks monitor* =)

~M~
playgirl
Mar. 31st, 2007 06:59 pm (UTC)
estas bien
Aye mi amor, estas bien, pero bien,loco!
Muuaa!
daddy
Mar. 31st, 2007 05:30 pm (UTC)
No matter how we try sometimes, we cannot be everything that others want us to be. We can be who and what we are and hope that others accept us for that.

There are so many who dislike me for my extreme patriotism, and other dislike my Libertarian views but some of the most poingnant words I have ever read were pened by Shakespeare.

"...This above all, to thine own self be true."

Be yourself, that is who we all fell in love with.
playgirl
Apr. 1st, 2007 03:20 am (UTC)
they don't matter at all
No, we sure can't please everybody!

No matter what views I express on any given topic, whether they be political, religious, or naughty, there's always someone who is offended and deletes me.

Anyhow, they don't matter at all, just as long as I still have you!

Re: they don't matter at all - daddy - Apr. 1st, 2007 01:27 pm (UTC) - Expand
dirtywhiteboi
Mar. 31st, 2007 05:31 pm (UTC)
As long as the "incredibly provocative posts" are accompanied by pictures, I dont have a problem with it!

dirt
playgirl
Mar. 31st, 2007 06:57 pm (UTC)
I have posted provocative pics
I have posted provocative pics before, not the kind of provocative ones that only instill giggles.
wbahner
Mar. 31st, 2007 06:44 pm (UTC)
If that's what they thought about you, then they didn't know you at all....
playgirl
Mar. 31st, 2007 06:53 pm (UTC)
never stuck around
No, they never stuck around long enough, as you and my other much loved LJ friends did, to really come to know me.
hr_fuknstuf
Mar. 31st, 2007 06:56 pm (UTC)
what a dork. forget that loser, playgirl.

i love your slutty side and i love PORN for that matter. NOW LET'S SEE THAT BUTT!!
playgirl
Mar. 31st, 2007 07:53 pm (UTC)
butt
My ass is a little too big for my own comfort, and if I expose it all, I know it'll become the butt of a joke througout the internet! ;o)
Re: butt - hr_fuknstuf - Apr. 1st, 2007 08:28 am (UTC) - Expand
mehen
Mar. 31st, 2007 08:49 pm (UTC)
You should never change, my love. I love and enjoy you as you are.
playgirl
Apr. 1st, 2007 03:01 am (UTC)
the core
I couldn't even if I tried. I'm already rotten to the core! YAY!
Love you!
gervgirl
Mar. 31st, 2007 09:32 pm (UTC)
OMG is that guy kidding. Please, I have seen a lot more things worse that would be closer to porn. To each his own I guess and yeah you have the right to say what you want and everyone has a right to read what they want. Just keep doing your thing girl and if someone doesn't like it, then that is is there loss. All you are doing is being yourself and if that person doesn't like it then I guess they are saying they don't like you and then they are not worth your time getting to know ether. That is just my two cents.
playgirl
Apr. 1st, 2007 03:08 am (UTC)
Perhaps it's for the best
Well, THIS is the post that upset him enough to drop me, and I really can't find anything really nasty about it.

Perhaps it's for the best he dropped me. He probably didn't like me from the very beginning.

Your two cents made a lot of CENTS! :o)
Hugs!
buddave
Mar. 31st, 2007 11:06 pm (UTC)
Oh no, please don't change. Perhaps whoever this person is
hasn't been away from the monastery long enough.
"Keep on honkin'"
playgirl
Apr. 1st, 2007 01:11 am (UTC)
Honk Honk
No, I'll never change 'cuz it's impossible!

Being naughty and obnoxiously wicked is an ingrained kind of thing! heeeeeeee

Honk Honk! :o)
neo_prodigy
Mar. 31st, 2007 11:58 pm (UTC)
Re: By and by, I will NEVER change who I am for NOBODY!!
i don't blame you one bit. you shouldn't compromise yourself for anyone.

i had a similar situation last fall. a friend on my lj friends list had befriended because he liked my art work and we corresponded and whatnot.

however i made a post praising henry rollins for calling out anne coulter after she viciously attacked the widows of 9/11. well the lj friend replied saying everybody was making a big deal of the situation and no one had read the transcripts from the interview in which coulter made her remarks. i replied that i had read the transcripts and she was still out of line. i added that surely a woman intelligent as coulter can respectfully disagree with the widows regarding politics without resorting to personal attacks and claiming that they are relishing and exploiting their husbands' death.

the guy quickly apologized stating that he made a promise never to discuss politics on lj and he broke his rule. the next day he made this passive aggressive post defending coulter saying that the widows were fair game and the day after, he dropped me from his friends list. no sweat off my back.

i have republican friends on my lj list and they've always been respectful of my beliefs and who i am. this specific clown clearly felt threatened and clearly had internal issues of his own, and i suspect the former lj friend in question may be similar.

but like you i wasn't about to change my beliefs or my character for anyone. you're entitled to disagree with me but if you can't accept me for who i am, then that's your problem and you won't be missed.

if the lj friend was that offended he could've simply opted to not read the post.

as far as i'm concerned, i'm not passing judgment on anybody....especially when it comes to porn posts. lord knows i've posted worse on my own damn blog. hell i've gone in specifics about my sex life. if your former lj friend wants to see a porn blog, send him over to mine.

you do you and if they can't accept you or respect you then they aren't worthy of you to begin with. if someone doesn't like the topic of a specific post, they have the option to simply not read it.

here is one suggestion. as i said before i often post sexual posts and content on my blog. generally i preface the entry with a warning in a bold font or hide it under an lj cut for those friends who may not want to read that specific entry. i respect the fact that some of my friends are very spiritual or have rigid sets of beliefs and may not want to read about that specific aspect of my life or they might be under the age of 18. i give fair warning, that way no one has the right to bitch afterwards.

that might be an idea you may want to adopt.
playgirl
Apr. 1st, 2007 05:06 am (UTC)
Re: By and by, I will NEVER change who I am for NOBODY!!
It’s so hard to figure out some people. I’ve just given up trying.
I have lost way of 100 LJ friends since I started this journal, probably way more than that. I express my true feelings here in this LJ, whether they be about the ills of the world, or something I found to be funny, or something spiritual, or something naughty, and it doesn’t matter what I write about, I seem to offend one or two who delete me.
What they don’t understand is that, although it’s great to have people agree with you, it’s also okay for them to disagree. Many times, someone has disagreed with me, and tried to make me see things their way, and there have been times where they have succeeded. It’s also good to find people who disagree, because many times you learn from them.
Is it any wonder the entire world can’t get along?! :o(
I have enjoyed you from the very beginning. You and I have agreed on most things, but there have been some where we don’t, and we have been able to accept it and respect each other. I know I’ve learned an awful lot from you!!
I suppose what it all comes down to is, to be grateful for the friends we do have, the ones who will put up with us no matter what.
I know I’ve been blessed by having found friends such as you, and that is what matters most!!

Whenever I post something SPICY, I let everyone know before they enter.

Love you!
fourcorners
Apr. 1st, 2007 12:33 am (UTC)
What porn post was this? What did I miss? What's going on?
playgirl
Apr. 1st, 2007 01:06 am (UTC)
this post offended him
No, you didn't miss a thing.

THIS is the post he found to be too sexual, Pornographic, and which made him a little nauseous.
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